Love coach
I will move then from Anne’s side to sit behind her and continue the finger movements up her arms to her shoulders. I will not be attempting to massage Anne – the intention is for Anne to feel very gentle touching at points that a man would touch her when exploring her body. I will run my hands over her shoulders, and my fingers will tickle her neck, her ear lobes, and her upper chest.
If Anne is now showing signs of mild arousal, I will ask Chuck to come and sit next to me (still behind Anne). I will encourage Anne to touch her husband. If she is resistant, I will show her that it is safe to do so by placing my hand on his cheek, and then moving my hand down to his neck. I will then have him move forward while I take her hand and lead her to do the same.
I will continue to encourage Anne to touch her husband while working to keep Chuck from showing too much of his arousal. If at this point Anne is past any resistance and is eager to engage in sexual activity with Chuck, I will slip over to the corner to watch the couple from the vantage point that Chuck previously had.