Love coach

To ease Anne into a comfort level, I will start with finding a comfortable position for her. She can lay on the bed, or sit in a chair, or choose whatever works for her. Chuck will be ordered to sit in a chair across the room, with a clear line of site to the treatment.

I will then sit beside Anne, facing her and starting with gentle, non-sexual touching. I will hold her hand, cradling with one hand and gently stroking her palm with my fingers. Anne will be asked to breathe slowly, encouraging relaxation and focus on only the feeling of the touch. As Anne relaxes, I will begin to move my fingers over her wrist, and up the inner arm to her elbow. I expect Anne to respond to the touching with a quiet moan of welcome stimulation.

I will next switch to Anne’s other hand, and again start in the palm and work my way up to the elbow. The expectation is that Anne will anticipate the touch, much as a woman becomes aroused at the touch of a sexual interest.

At this point, I will ask Anne if she would like to include Chuck in the process. Given the long break in intimacy, I expect Anne to be resistant. (I also expect Chuck to already be in a full state of arousal at the site of his coach caressing his wife.)