A man comes to grips with his girlfriends feelings for her ex

March 9th

Mia is still talking to her ex. She told me she had stopped and wouldn’t respond if he text her but yesterday I saw a text from him left in her inbox. It seemed innocent, it just said “lol good one”. The problem is that it was the only text. There was a conversation but it had been deleted. I decided not to confront her about it. I don’t want to push her away. But its been driving me crazy.

Update: I just checked Mia’s phone again and now its locked. I asked her why and she just gave me a bullshit excuse. Really nervous now.

March 11th

I confronted Mia about the text I had seen. I expected her to deny it but she was honest with me. She felt really bad and apologized a dozen times and told me that she loved me. I asked her why she had text him and she said she didn’t know. I wondered if talking to him might make it easier for her to move on. When I asked Mia what she thought she said that maybe it would but she didn’t want to hurt me by talking to him again. I asked her if she thought she could stop herself from talking to him again and she said she didn’t know. So I told her to talk to him about it, be honest and just don’t hide anything. Mia looked extremely relieved and a little excited when I told her. We ended up have another great night of sex. Mia was a freak in bed. She rode me hard for over half an hour.