Love coach

Chuck and Anne have been married a long time, but they haven’t been intimate for 10 years now. I am coaching Chuck to see if the marriage can be saved. He loves her obviously or he wouldn’t have stayed this long in a celibate relationship. He has reached that point though where he is losing hope for Anne, and looking to another woman for a possible outlet for his sexual frustration.

I believe my coaching now needs to include Anne. I don’t know how she feels – but I have to believe she misses the joy and pleasure of physical touch. Here is my plan then.

Chuck will rent a hotel room to create a neutral site free of any interruptions. No cell phones allowed.

I will bring Anne to the hotel room after an exploratory conversation with her. Obviously if she has medical or significant psychological objections to this plan, we will cancel the experiment or I will commit to staying with her in the hotel room.

If I stay in the room, I expect I will need to ease Anne back into the physical act of sex. Chuck’s level of frustration makes him very easy to arouse. Anne will likely be intimidated by his urgency and may call off the evening.