How To Eat A Pussy-7
If you’re sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you’re giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she’s getting high on this. If there’s any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when she’s excited or only when she’s having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you’ll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven’s sakes, don’t let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you’ll get some multiple orgasms this way, a woman stays excited for an hour after she’s had an orgasm.
How many times does she need to cum? Some women are very content to have one orgasm. A whole lot of women would really like to cum again, but need about five minutes to recoup. Many women are so sensitive right after they cum that they may push your head violently away. This doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve had enough, only that you need to stop for a few minutes. In fact most women, given a short rest between, are capable of cumming again and again. A smaller percentage of women are able to cum repeatedly with continued stimulation. This is the much-touted multiple-orgasm that’s experienced by a minority of women. I know this makes it difficult to know when enough is enough, but there’s a simple answer: ask her.
After you’ve made her cum, don’t leave her alone just yet. A man can get off and go to sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman, by nature, requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Don’t wipe yourself off, walk around the bed to get to the other side, go to the bathroom. Maintain close physical contact, work your way from where you were when she climaxed to holding her in your arms. Lie close together, arms and legs intertwined, wet bodies pressed close together, let your cock lie in the folds of her pussy.
Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way down, or, if nature allows, builds back up. If you’ve just finished my favorite 69, do some serious kissing. Taste your own juices as her tongue brings traces of it into your mouth while your tongue passes her woman’s essence to her taste buds. Taste the delicious mixtures as your tongues dart back and forth, mixing the sweet cunt and cock sex juices in your mouths. Who knows what new pleasures this could lead to as your passions begin to rebuild.
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It happens to all of us sometimes – distraction, embarrassment, anxiety, or just an inability to “let go.” What do you do about it? The first question is, can she easily bring herself to a climax in the privacy of her own home. If the answer is no – then she needs to do some homework. There are two books on the subject that I know of: “For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality” by Lonnie Barbach, and “Sex for One: The Joy of Self-loving” by Betty Dodson; pick up one. Then tell her to read it, study it, and practice, practice, practice!
Now if your partner is orgasmic only when alone – ask her point blank: “Is there something different I can do?” Many women are shy about criticizing their lovers, but if asked outright will surprise you with a very specific answer. It may be a simple matter of mechanics, like a little to right, please, or not so rough, or more pressure and faster. Ah . . . perfect.
But suppose everything is wonderful. She says you’re doing everything right but she just can’t cum. There are two probable causes: self-consciousness and/or self-loathing. For women who can’t help watching themselves, the best approach is to eliminate anything that focuses her attention on what the two of you’re doing. This is a “be here now” kind of thing – definitely not an introspective activity. Get that mirror off the ceiling. Dim the lights or turn them off completely. Put on some soft music. Share a glass of port. (I said A glass – getting drunk will definitely not help).
Have her lie on her back, or propped up comfortably with some pillows. This isn’t the time for her to sit on your face, or the edge of the bed, or stand up against a wall. Arrange a time when you can devote a long period to eating her pussy, and then just keep it up. Forget everything I said about asking her questions – just close your eyes and get into it. I know this can be a difficult and exhausting exercise, but she’ll be extravagantly thankful for your efforts. It gets easier each time. If all else fails, get accustomed to masturbating together. Gradually begin to add your stimulation to her own, right before she’s about to cum anyway. Over time, you can take over completely.
